Involving loved ones with dementia in simple household tasks provides meaningful engagement and promotes independence. Adjusting activities to match their abilities makes participation rewarding.
Know Their Capabilities
Observe your loved one to gauge what they can manage. Note tasks that interest them or they naturally engage in. Build on existing abilities rather than introducing new skills.
Break Down Steps
Divide larger tasks into smaller, achievable parts. Guide them through one step at a time. Allow ample time to complete each component. Too many instructions at once can be confusing.
Offer Physical Assistance
Physically guide their hands in demonstrating a task if needed. Touch cues along with verbal direction can aid learning. Stay patient and supportive – don’t rush them.
Praise All Efforts
Highlight what they accomplish, instead of errors. Thank them for any contribution, no matter how small. This motivates them to keep trying.
Engage Throughout the Day
Look for ways to include them in household tasks from morning to night. Wiping counters, folding towels, sweeping floors – every little bit helps them feel purposeful.
Match Tasks to Interests
Aim for tasks that connect to their talents and preferences. Someone who loved cooking may enjoy mixing ingredients. A fix-it type may be like organizing tools.
Try Hand Over Hand Guidance
Place your hand over theirs to guide stirring a pot, wiping a surface, and folding clothes. The touch contact helps cue the motions.
Use Verbal Cues
Talk them through task steps while they work. Hearing directives helps focus attention and provides reassurance.
Write Out Instructions
Post written signs labelling task steps or supplies needed. Refer back to these bullet point prompts as needed.
Turn On your Favorite Music
Playing beloved, familiar music sets a relaxing mood. This lowers anxiety and stimulates positive memories connected to the songs.
Adjust for Skill Level
As abilities change, modify tasks for success. Switch from sweeping to dusting. Cut veggies for them rather than having them sliced. Adapt supports while still enabling participation.
Watch for Fatigue
Notice when concentration, coordination, or energy starts lagging. Switch to less demanding tasks or incorporate rest breaks. Don’t overdo it.
Praise their efforts in assisting, no matter how small. Highlight specific things done well. Reward participation with sincere gratitude.
Staying active provides a sense of purpose. Guiding your loved one to safely lend a hand with adapted household tasks allows them to feel engaged and valued.